Cant believe im doing this : GF advice

B16aRS · Post by **B16aRS** » Thu Nov 26, 2009 12:38 am

Ok guys i feel like a huge tool for doing this but am curious what you guys would do in my situation. Ok me and my GF have been dating for a little while. At first she was all over me and constantly texted me and all this stuff.

Well lately shes been kinda distant. My buddy talks to her and she says to him "idk i just dont know what i want right now, its hard to explain" He says " are you gonna break up?" She says " Nah im gonna see what happens".

So something is wrong for sure. This past friday everything was ok and she was acting like her normal self. It was after this past friday that she started acting more distant towards me. We text a little through the day when before she would text me throughout the whole day. We havent hung out since saturday besides for last night when i worked with her and didnt get a kiss/hug goodbye. I barely got a goodbye.

She still calls me babe/baby. Doubt that means anything though. Her personality has changed a lot towards me too.

Ok guys so what do i do??? I know i could break up with her but i do like her. I usually dont do relationships but flings. Should i just talk to her? I dont wanna seem insecure or like a bitch whatever i do say to her.

tmarsh · Post by **tmarsh** » Thu Nov 26, 2009 12:42 am

Hit her.

Its Pat! · Post by **Its Pat!** » Thu Nov 26, 2009 12:51 am

i cant believe its not butter

sharpie · Post by **sharpie** » Thu Nov 26, 2009 12:54 am

Sounds like it's over sorry. really your last chance would be to plan a nice date

B16aRS · Post by **B16aRS** » Thu Nov 26, 2009 12:56 am

sharpie;210464 wrote:Sounds like it's over sorry. really your last chance would be to plan a nice date

Idk why she just didnt break up with me then. Like what is she waiting for me to do? I wanna confront her but idk

sharpie · Post by **sharpie** » Thu Nov 26, 2009 1:03 am

B16aRS;210465 wrote:Idk why she just didnt break up with me then. Like what is she waiting for me to do? I wanna confront her but idk

Has she ever broken up with someone if it's her first time she might be scared about it. Or she isn't sure how she feels about you which is how I was with my ex

ryansDc5 · Post by **ryansDc5** » Thu Nov 26, 2009 1:05 am

I'm gonna agree with Sharpie, something seemed to have happened that made her lose interest or just want to move on. Break up with her before she dumps you!

OneOfTwo · Post by **OneOfTwo** » Thu Nov 26, 2009 1:26 am

sounds like she wants u to be the one to break it off. that way she's gets to feel guilt free for it not working out. sorry bro. choices are simple just not easy.

getteg · Post by **getteg** » Thu Nov 26, 2009 2:12 am

Thats about how it went with me. Hope it all works out better than mine.

B16aRS · Post by **B16aRS** » Thu Nov 26, 2009 2:19 am

sharpie;210466 wrote:Has she ever broken up with someone if it's her first time she might be scared about it. Or she isn't sure how she feels about you which is how I was with my ex

She told me that she has broken up with guys before when we first started dating.

I feel that she still likes me but is confused cause she hasnt really ever had a real relationship.